Let’s start with, what is optimism (noun)?

our bestie Google says,

& let’s look at optimistic (adjective):

To be hopeful and confident,


That’s cool and all…

But we know Life throws us curve balls to hit,

and storms to walk through!

How are we supposed to feel during those times?

That’s why I also included optimistic because the second definition says,

involving an overestimate

When I’m being realistic with Life, I don’t want to overestimate the good feelings

and feel wrong, stupid for thinking those good feelings, and be let down.

I don’t want optimism tbh.

I want positivity!

The keyword in positivity is practice,

like it’s a skill and something to be mastered,

not just one way of being / feeling.

Positivity is something to be mastered

amidst those curve balls and stormy seasons.

So let’s look at positivitist..?



Found that another Google click later, and

ain’t got anything to do with what I’m talking about,

Well.. #2.

So I wrote my own definition cause it’s the 2020s

and I can, and I did

This is my main message behind Let’s Get Posi.

It’s not about being happy.

It’s not about just putting a smile on.

It’s about being present in Life and living life.

Life is to be lived, not controlled.

While getting hurt is real, getting and staying upset or bitter is a reaction self chooses to sit in when the event is over.

We must live a lifestyle of practicing posi-tivity.

Sit in positivity.

Sit in forgiveness and in love.

Thanks for reading and I hope you’ve considered my definition

and join me in spreading this message.


I wish you peace, laughs and more joyful moments

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Peace and grace,

– P. Blessman

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